The Christmas list – pros and cons of a holiday tradition
The letter usually started like this:
Dear Santa. I have been a very, very good girl this year.
Then came the list. Some years long, some years short. Always specific. (Sidebar: Why, if Santa knew when I was sleeping and knew when I was awake, did he NOT know what I wanted for Christmas? Discuss.) Of course I eventually realized that the list was being intercepted by mom, who processed the order.
Are lists still necessary? In an informal survey among my friends and co-workers, there was no definite answer. Some say yes. Some say no. What are the pros and cons of making a list?
Pro-List
• A list guarantees that you will get things you need and want
• A list reduces the odds of having to return or exchange a gift
• A list helps the gift giver, saving them time and frustration
Anti-List
• A list means that the giver isn’t familiar with the recipient’s hobbies or interests
• A list limits the giver’s creativity
• No list means you’ll be surprised (for better or worse)
Online wish lists are gaining in popularity. Amazon has a very robust list program, allowing you to make your own list, as well as create gift idea lists for friends or family. You can choose to make lists public, or only allow limited access. One advantage of the online wish list is that your friends and family can see what you have received from others, similar to a gift registry. It also allows for some surprises – you may have everything on the list from a DVD box set to a tin of tea, but not know until you open the package what you have received.
I am not opposed to making a Christmas list, although I occasionally resist it. I am willing to make a list for family members who genuinely want to give me something I will like – but are time-starved. I feel like that’s part of my gift to them, taking some of the burden off. When I make a list I keep budgets in mind, offering ideas for inexpensive items as well as mid-range priced gifts.
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