An angst-free gift giving guide for guys
Sigh. For a woman, it’s wonderful. For a guy, it’s probably just the most confusing thing ever. You have entered the phase where a gift is expected. Guys, I’m here to help you out. To make it easy, let’s limit the shopping to one online retailer, J.Crew.
Stage 1 – We’re in L…L…Like?
You are not ready for jewelry or lingere, right? And you need a gift that puts you in a positive light. Go for something that says you’re not a tightwad, you have good taste, and you care about keeping her adorable little ears warm. Cashmere hat, scarf and/or gloves. All three will set you back $148. If you want to spend a little less, at least get the scarf for $68.
Stage 2 – She’s My Girlfriend and I Don’t Care Who Knows It
By now you know a lot about this woman, so this gift needs to be about HER. You expect to drop some cash, so brace yourself. A gorgeous leather bag, suited to her work/style/personality might be the ticket. This one is particularly nice and will fit everything she needs. It’s $325. But, you will score major points for a gift like this.
Stage 3 – I May Occasionally Call Her My Old Lady
You’ve made it to the “serious” stage, which varies from couple to couple. Essentially you are “in love.” Yeah you! You’ve probably made it through a lot of gift giving opportunities already, so at this point you’re just looking for ideas. If you have the money and the wherewithal, I recommend this gorgeous shawl collar cashmere sweater. At $498 it’s extravagent, yes. But isn’t she worth it?
Of course these are broad, sweeping generalizations. Only you know where you are in your relationship. Maybe you are in the “Single Malt Scotch” phase, or maybe you are in the “Airplane DVD” phase.
Whatever stage you’re in don’t sweat it. If you need suggestions, talk to a good woman friend, or leave me a comment and I’ll make a suggestion. Don’t worry, women never run out of ideas for gifts we’d like to get!
Gift Giving, Guys, Relationships, J.Crew, Cashmere, Leather Bags, Hats, Scarves, Gloves, Sweaters
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